How to have a healthy and lasting love relationship?

"May they live happily ever after" is a phrase of wishes for happiness and the dream of many. However, this status is not achievable by everyone. Passion and love are not enough. It has to be based on total and mutual respect.

Treat everything as important, even the smallest details.

Check out our valuable tips for building a healthy and lasting love relationship:

>>> 1. Ask yourself if the person's profile is compatible with mine?

Find out if the person's lifestyle, tastes, interests and goals in life are close to or the same as yours. Couples who get along well tend to share common tastes and preferences.

>>> 2. Mutual respect in all situations, limits and difficulties:

Respect the person's differences in relation to you. No individual is like another. We all have limits and difficulties. Having empathy and resilience is the key.

>>> 3. Dialogue and mutual trust:

In situations of arguments and disagreements, which are normal and common in all couples, you will be able to reach a consensus more easily and quickly, in an ecological way.

Transparency and sincerity make it possible to avoid unnecessary wear and tear. Constant conflicts are harmful in the relationship and can generate levels of intolerance and even violence.

>>> 4. Appreciation and Compliments:

Cherish and start to see with good eyes the other person's qualities and virtues. A sincere compliment will do a lot of good for your relationship. It's very easy to criticize and highlight the other's negative points, without acknowledging your own.

When we praise our partner, we emphasize the positive aspects of the relationship and attract more happy moments. Showing your affection and recognition creates positive energies and raises the vibration of positivity, increasing the self-esteem of both.

>>> 5. Romantic initiatives and attitudes

Declare your respect, admiration and love constantly, and your partner will start to do the same. Hug, pet, or kiss. Physical affection and demonstration make the relationship much more loving and nourished, thus nurturing unforgettable moments and memories.

>>> 6. Loving daily

Declaring yourself daily, even if it is obvious, such as: “I love you more every day”, “I miss you, waiting to see you soon” etc., shows at every moment and reminds you of your feelings towards your loved one. These are small phrases that are worth cultivating on a daily basis.

Text when you're at work, build and nurture that connection.

>>> 7. Be your soul mate

Treat the other as your closest friend, your soul mate. Tell your partner that you are focused on this. No competition and with the aim of complementing each other.

Being together is a small ritual that is part of the journey. Learning to listen and paying attention to your partner will only strengthening the relationship.

>>> 8. Tolerance

Never judge your partner unnecessarily. Know how to see and respect your differences. You need to be smart and not necessarily be right. Smart people don't compete or challenge themselves. And never use words like “I forbid you to.....”. Harmony is created from complicity.

>>> 9. Focus Positively on the Future

The past is important. Without the mistakes of the past, we cannot improve the future. Everyone makes mistakes. Don't try to look for perfection, but try to improve every day. Do not manipulate during a discussion using events from the past. Try to find together a path for the present and the future, of respect and harmony. Avoid ready-made recipes and formulas, also accept other people's suggestions.

If you make a mistake, have the humility to apologize. Crises of distrust are resolved only with dialogue and sincerity.

By following and investing in these valuable tips, you will enjoy a path of success, with ever-increasing respect, harmony and love in the relationship.

However, in some cases, the challenging commitment to put these tips into practice in everyday life is very difficult, so the best solution is not to delay or hesitate to seek the help of coaching and competent therapies that will best assist in this journey.

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Testimonial Daniel Wiseman, the husband of Debora Wiseman: "I am very grateful to God and to the NLP course that she took with so much care with the mastery of Mentor Rafael Rocha. I am very grateful for the "new" wife that I am happy to live with, even in difficult situations and conflict, she is no longer that quarrelsome, imposing and angry one. A wife who manages to apply in practice, at every moment, in favor of our marital peace, the tools learned in theory, with this course, with more respect, affection, attention, and dialogue, much more emotionally intelligent. She should certainly be very successful in coaching to help those who genuinely want to be helped, as she herself sought help and found it. Well done!! Immense gratitude!"

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Shalom!

Debora and Daniel Wiseman